Here's some simple ice breakers to start a conversation

If you're starting to feel lonely, know that you are not alone. Moving away from home, starting a new course and being surrounded by people you don't know yet can feel overwhelming. 

A simple ice breaker can make things a lot easier. Here are a few tried-and-tested ways to spark conversation and meet new people.  

1. Ask about hometowns

"Did you travel far to move here?" 

This gives people a chance to share a bit about themselves and is an easy way to find common ground, maybe you grew up near each other or you can ask follow up questions if you've never been there. 

2. Talk about courses

"What course are you studying? How are you finding it so far?" 

Asking what someone is studying is an instant conversation starter. You can follow up with questions on what made them choose it, or ask if they studied it in college. You never know, you might have a mutual interest – if so, see if there's a society at the university for it and ask if they'd be interested in joining with you. 

3. Food brings people together

"Have you tried any good food spots on campus yet?"

"What's your favourite dish from home?" 

Chatting about your favourite food spots, meal deals or even what you cook in your flat is a great way to keep the conversation light. If it's going well, why don't you ask to try a new spot out in the city together?

4. Share the awkward

"Fresher's week is a bit full on, isn't it?" 

Sometimes the best way to break the ice is to acknowledge it. Everyone is in the same boat, and there is a lot going on during this time, so something as simple as this can get people laughing and nodding along. 

5. Use your surroundings

"Do you want to check out the common room? Fancy a game of pool or table tennis?"

Whether you're at a Halls Life event or just wandering around halls, use what's around you and random moments to start a chat. The common rooms are made to be spaces where you can socialise, so definitely make the most of them. See what's in and around your hall using our halls maps. 

Everyone's looking to make friends at university, a simple ice breaker is often all it takes to get past the awkwardness and start making connections. But if you do need some extra support, we have lots of services available so don't hesitate to reach out.