How to introduce yourself to your flatmates

Simple icebreakers to help build friendships

While moving to university is an exciting experience, it can be daunting to speak to lots of new people, especially ones you'll be living with. But don't worry, it's completely normal to feel anxious and a bit socially awkward when you first meet your flatmates.

We've got some icebreakers for you to try to ease the social pressure and any initial awkwardness.

Introduce yourself when unpacking 👋

The initial conversations with your flatmates might feel forced, and trying to come up with some fun facts about yourself might be tough, but this moment is vital to making your living environment more comfortable. 

Try to talk to each of your flatmates within the first day or two of moving in and ask simple, conversational questions such as:

• What made you choose your course?
• What did you do over the summer?
• Do you have a favourite hobby?

Remember, you might also not click with everyone straight away, and that's okay! Over the year, you'll naturally find shared interests, routines or activities that help you bond.

Invite your flatmates to Freshers' events 🎉

Once you're all moved in and started to have a chit-chat with each other, have a look at any upcoming Freshers' Week events together and see if there are any events that interest you. You could go to club nights, or if you're not big drinkers, maybe something more relaxing like a walking tour or painting session.

Inviting your flatmate along can make the events feel less intimidating for both of you and give you shared experiences to talk and laugh about afterwards. It's a great way to ease into student life together.

Suggest a movie night or TV show binge sesh 🍿

Although it might take a while to agree on a show to watch, these nights can easily become a weekly/monthly tradition. You could even take turns choosing your favourite films each week. It's a good way to bond and learn about each other in a low-pressure, fun way.

Share a meal 🍽️

Food is one of the easiest ways to bring people together. Whether you cook a simple meal or order a takeaway, sitting down to eat with your flatmates can spark natural conversation. 

You could also prepare some dishes for each person's home country. This can be a nice way to begin your journey as flatmates and also help those who may be struggling with homesickness. It gives everyone a chance to share a bit of their culture.

Here's five student-friendly recipes to get you started. 

We understand that it's not easy moving to a new area, learning how to be independent and socialising with many new people. It's a lot to juggle. But remember that everyone's in the same boat, and your flatmates will probably be feeling just as awkward as you. Try out these icebreakers and start building friendships from day one!